What do you do when nobody loves the person you love? When nothing he does seems right by them, even if it is. What do you do when they find him unacceptable and they cannot see anything good in everything he does? Am I just being blindly in love even if we’ve been together for several years? I mean, he has his faults but who doesn’t? Am I just in denial or am I too myopic? I’m severely unhinged with the stress of trying to juggle between my love for them and my love for him. What do I do? Should I believe what they say that “he’s not deserving of me” and that I should not have “settled”? But the heart wants what it wants, right? And most importantly, I am happy because he makes me happy.
So, what do I do?
Helene (Ελένη)
Check in your heart of hearts about their reasons for thinking that way. If after this, you still can’t validate them, ask yourself this; Why would you give a rat’s ass about whether they love him or not? Let’s go have a ‘muddled cocktail’.
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